Saturday, 27 September 2008
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ive noticed that lying has become a daily thing in my life. mostly to some particular friends and my parents. is this a natural thing? i don't lie to everyone about evrything, but i DO lie. mostly to protect myself from ppl judging me or something like that. is that justified? do you like to protect your reputation. i bet a lot of ppl do. i'm learning in a class about how to live your life. it says to never lie, but is that really possible? most ppl lie because they don't want to hurt someone's feelings. is that bad? i was taught that its okay to lie if the truth will hurt someone's feelings. my teacher says it doesn't matter. no matter wat the question is, you should tell the person your real opinion, but don't you think that's really harsh? i wouldn't be comfortable doing that. i mean if someone asks if they look horrible that day, you shouldn't tell "yea! ive been thinkin about that all day. wat's up with you???!" i mean... who honestly does that? and if you do, apparently you're doing the "right thing" but how is that right if it can hurt someone. usually wen someone asks a question it's cuz they believe it and they want someone to tell them otherwise. to say "no... wat are you talking about?". i don't blame them. a lot of ppl do it every now and then. it just bothers me wen you begin to notice that its bcum a daily thing that ppl do, thats just annoying. i mean.... come on ppl. now you jst WANT someone to compliment you for no reason. you WANT them to tell you you look good bcuz you KNOW you do. which sucks really bad.
wat do you think???
Sunday, 21 September 2008
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I'm in high school now and I'm starting to notice things about the people around me. They're all having sex. (I'm exaggerating, not ALL but a couple have started and I'm in shock). Some of my closest girl friends have done it and they tell me about it. I'm not surprised really, just more like, how do I say it, I don't even know. It's true that a lot of people have lost their virginity by age 16 but there has been a study that shows that kids who have sex before 18 start to go crazy because of it. That it's so emotional that they can't handle it. Is this true? I wonder. I mean, I've noticed some major changes in the people that have. They're really touchy and always grred about everything. Only, that's some people. Some people are just like WHATEVER and they move on with their lives. Is that a reflection on the person? Or is it just by chance? I think that the stronger you are the easier it is for you to handle. I mean, yes, I've considered it before but I always stop myself. Mostly because if I even doubt saying yes for a second then I know I'm not ready for it. A lot of people say that if they love someone they should. But the problem is what if the other person doesn't feel the same way? A lot of people say "I know he/she loves me!" Well, how do you? We're young. A lot of people don't know how to read other people yet. We may know how to love, but we don't know the signs if someone else does. I mean come on. Everyone says I love you on the first day. It's stupid. Nobody should say unless they mean it. I used to do that. And I swear I'm not gonna say it from this day on unless I completely mean it.
Now for the real reason of this blog. When is it okay? When do people consider the situation true and it's okay? Is there a true real situation where it's okay? I read a book that said to ask certain questions to see if you're ready. 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens It says:
"You're not ready to have sex if...
1. you think sex equals love
2. you feel pressured
3. you're afraid to say no
4. it's just easier to give in
5. you think everyone else is doing it (they're not)
6. your instincts tell you not to
7. you don't know the facts about pregnancy
8. you don't understand how birth control works
9. you don't think a woman can get pregnant the first time (she can)
10. it goes against your moral beliefs
11. it goes against your religious beliefs
12. you'll regret it in the morning
13. you feel embarrassed or ashamed
14. you're doing it to prove something
15. you can't support a child
16. you can't support yourself
17. your idea of commitment is a 3-day video rental
18. you believe sex before marriage is wrong
19. you don't know how to protect yourself from HIV - the virus that causes AIDS
20. you don't know the signs and symptoms of sexually transmitted infections (STIs, also called STDs)
21. you think it will make your partner love you
22. you think it will make you love your partner
23. you think it will keep you together
24. you hope it will change you're life
25. you don't want it to change you're life
26. you're not ready for the relationship to change
27. you're drunk
28, you wish you were drunk
29. your partner is drunk
30. you'll just die if it's not perfect
32. you can't laugh together about awkward elbows or clumsy clothes
34. you think HIV and AIDS only happen to other people
35. You think you can tell who has HIV by looking at them
36. you don't think teens get HIV (they do)
37. You don't know that abstinence is the only 100% protection against sexually transmitted infections and pregnancy
38. you haven't talked about tomorrow
39. you can't face the thought of tomorrow
40. you'd be horrified if your parents found out
41. you're doing it just so your parents will find out
42. you're too scared to think clearly
43. you think it will make you popular
44. you think you "owe it" to your partner
45. you think it's not OK to be a virgin
46. you're only thinking about yourself
47. you're not thinking about yourself
48. you can't wait to tell everyone about it
49. you hope no one will hear about it
50. you really wish the whole thing had never come up
It's OK to wait.
So what is your opinion about the things above? Do you think they're right in every sense, it's totally ridiculous, or that somethings are little too expectant? I've said no to almost all of those except for a fair few. I still doubt myself so I must not be ready.
When have you done it? Did you regret it?
When do you plan to do it?
Saturday, 23 August 2008
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hello evryone. :) ive been hiding a secret from my friends. it's not really a big deal. but itz not major enuf. im sure they would like to kno. but i promised not to share. it's jst like i feel like that i SHULD tell them but i think it would b better if i ddnt tell anyone. hmm.... soo... im in band camp rite now and itz pretti freakin awesum. da guyz are so awesum. they like to pick on us freshman but itz all gud. they're so pervereted. itz sooo funni tho. they arent really as bad as they are with sum other girls. i get scared wen i walk around cuz they like to tell each other who they want to fuck. so i wonder dat wen i walk out of the room.... do they say dat about me? haha. idk. they're cool tho. well i have to go now. think about my secret. well buh bye. :)
-kitty kat go rawr
Friday, 08 August 2008
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omfg. i cant believe watz goin on! is dis happening? everythingz gud for me! my bestie is officially my bestie! guys are sooo much better! haha. well, except for a fair few of my girlfirends. they have always been there for me... so i guess u can say... my best guy friend. haha. as for jesus. idk watz going on. i mean, poni's right about wat i should do, but hmm.... im glad hez dere for me ya kno? i wsnt sure if he would be, but he is. ill always love him in some way or another.
but back to jesus
so wat shuld ido? im going to da movies with him 2morrow...... dat shuld be interesting. it'll help wit da decision for sure. hopefully a lot. im still incredibly happy btw! haha. jst things are still going my way ya kno? well. ima g2g. ive been ignoring ppl on aim and i dnt think they'll like it.
buh bye!
-kitty go rawr
Tuesday, 05 August 2008
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hello everyone! :) today im starting another book! yay! it's called WUTHERING HEIGHTS. yes, it is so awesum i put it in capital letters. :D it's an old school book but incredibly good. by old school i mean written by Emily Bronte old school. chyea! anyways... before i start acting like a freak again. i have gained a new found attraction 2 aim. i feel weird. but itz jst so much more! i also like emailing ppl. since i deleted my myspace ive been reading a lot more, but sumtimes i like to email ppl. itz a lot more fun. i miss old letters that ppl used to send in the mail and write with true interest in wat the other has to say, but since nobody does that anymore... i resort to emails! they're a lot of funnn. well, im getting bored with myself! not really, but i dnt kno wat to write. im coming up blank.i shall return! wooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
-kitty kat go rawr!
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im a different kinda person. i dnt fall in love easily and i have a tendency to think to much. i love blogging for sum strange reason. itz like a diary that cnt hurt me. and my parents dnt kno about it. :) yes, im young but im still learning to grow up. im not afraid to admit that im stupid at times. i have an unlucky habit of knocking ovr things, squealing randomly, and biting my nails when nervous, scared, or deep in thought. i barely began to cry this year. [i got tired of pretending i ddnt need to cry... EVR!] as of now i want to go to a movie. my friends mean the world to me. and ill be there for you no matter what. ive evn been there for ppl i dnt kno! [it was kinda awkward] i absolutely DESPISE liars and will accept evryone for who they are. jst cuz sumone is different dsnt mean they dnt belong. it jst means they're different! datz not a horrible thing. you'll find that my postings may be random and frequent. but i dnt see anything wrong with that. :)
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